I lifted up her elytra, but only 1/2 way. I could not see wings. This species turns out to be Pleocoma dubitabilis. They are rarely seen, but I read that they occur by the thousands at one local Christmas Tree farm where they are considered "pests". I'm not sure if the larval phases take 10+ years in this species, but my guess is YES!
I think males are smaller and black.
I did offer some watered down maple syrup. The milk jug lid that it was in was tipped over, so I'm not sure if they drank it. I have the 2 beetles together in one terrarium. Many Pleocoma photos seem to show groups of these beetles together, so I think it is okay to put them together. If they live another week or two I will place the females in a container outside to see if males fly to them, but it has to be a warm, wet night, I think.
The larvae seem to feed on live tree roots, but the adults of some species are not known to feed (I think).