Generally we see the males right away. Right as the sun goes down. I have seen them flying around at dusk. It does seem to drop off after the first 2 hours of darkness but you can still find a few here and there at midnight. But the peak seems to be that first 2 hours. As the season goes on, we will often see more females at lights and less males on the trees. So like most species, the females seem to last longer in the season and males start to disappear. It's very interesting that you don't see males.
I'm sure you have done this but have have gone out in the area very early in the season? Or possibly very late? Just curious if by chance, the males come out very early and disappear fast. However, that seems unlikely. The year that I have seen the highest ratio of females to males is a year that we came sort of late. Generally there is lots of males on the trunks, often 3 on one trunk. That year, there was very few males out but we got lots of females at black lights. I had assumed it was because we were late but not sure. It was the most females I had ever seen, about 15, and it was a very small amount of males, about 20 or so.